YOU ARE THE ADVICE COLUMNIST: I Know I'm Bi-Sexual, But Am I Too Old To Act On It?

I have just started exploring this aspect of my sexuality and I feel like a creepy old lady trying to have a threesome.
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My issue is really straight forward. I've always been curious about other women, but wasn't secure enough to admit it even though my boyfriend of forever ago knew it (hello, lesbian porn only please!). But now that I am over 30, I am more secure and more open about it all and have discovered I like going to strip clubs with him. A lot. I like the beautiful ladies, I like that stripers tend to be really cool chicks, I like that they enjoy having a non-jealous woman around and we always dance, do shots, buy lap dances for each other etc. I like the sexy but safe aspect of the high-end strip club experience. My hubs is a really nice guy, a total gentleman-sex-god, and we often end up having a really good time with some playful stuff in the Champagne Room that isn't too scandalous but titillating enough to lead to fantastic sex. The problem is, now that I am older and wiser (and can actually afford these sexcapades)I feel well... Older. I have just started exploring this aspect of my sexuality and for some stupid reason (society, hi! (waves)), I feel like a creepy old lady trying to have a threesome. Advice? Encouragement?

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