I’m the Meryl Streep of faking orgasms.
I am a porn star. I am a college freshman. You know nothing about me.
Why would you ever, you ask. Because, I say.
We went dutch so often I should be fluent. We never kissed. I never let him cop a feel. Nothing.
Before I have sex I want to make sure I’m at my physical and emotional best so that I don’t end up in a splint afterward – what’s so wrong with that? I want to enjoy the experience my own way, not everybody else’s way.
This list is hair scrunchie and melon free, I promise.
What isn’t clear is the nature of the association between casual sex and poor mental health — which is the cause and which is the effect? Why is casual sex such a bummer?
I don’t expect to come from casual sex, while I’m sure every dude I have it with does.
In the Appalachian region, sex is still often linked to marriage, or at least reproduction, and the choices of teenagers without access to enough information can have long-lasting effects.
Something that didn’t happen to me: I didn’t have an orgasm. As in never.
My challenge isn’t my orgasm—I can handle that on my own. My challenge, guys, is trust.
The idea that no one should ever convince you, using ANY method -- including guilt -- to engage in a sex act was never addressed openly when I was growing up.
national coming out day
What would you like to know? How long have I been this way?
We’re definitely not doctors and we highly recommend you see your gynecologist or go to the local clinic right away if you think you might have a sexually transmitted infection. But in the interim, we urge you not to panic.
Time and time again, women’s sexual and reproductive lives and choices are labeled shameful by a patriarchal power structure that remains intent on perpetuating our inequality.
It might surprise most to learn that my free loving hippie lesbian mother never had "the talk" with me.