There simply is not enough work in this industry, especially as a BBW, to make this a career. It doesn't pay your bills. It just won't.
You’re both ready to try having an open relationship, or exploring polyamory. But what do you actually DO?
I don't want some dude slamming his junk inside of me for hours.
the style con
Nothing screams “Yes! Yes! Yes!” quite like the cold, bloodless flesh of a robot.
AIDS and a battle with body dysmorphia fueled a lifelong avoidance of intimacy.
Choe’s masseuse “Rose” may be fictitious, but we unfortunately live in a world full of “Roses.”
david choe
you are the advice columnist
sex therapist
Many of my “old haunts” are sex blogs, and seeing some of my favorites go dark over the years has made me as wistful as others might be if they found out that their favorite, childhood roller rink burned down.
sex toys
In a time when “Louis sheets / he sweat it out like washed rags / he wet it up” is an acceptable Grammys performance lyric, buying sex toys is really not a lot more risqué than buying lingerie.
no orgasms
I’m the Meryl Streep of faking orgasms.
sex work
body image
Why would you ever, you ask. Because, I say.

Feb 18, 2014 at 5:00pm | 0 comments

open thread
We went dutch so often I should be fluent. We never kissed. I never let him cop a feel. Nothing.
Before I have sex I want to make sure I’m at my physical and emotional best so that I don’t end up in a splint afterward – what’s so wrong with that? I want to enjoy the experience my own way, not everybody else’s way.

Dec 17, 2013 at 7:30pm | 0 comments

sex tips
This list is hair scrunchie and melon free, I promise.

Dec 6, 2013 at 8:00pm | 1 comments

What isn’t clear is the nature of the association between casual sex and poor mental health — which is the cause and which is the effect? Why is casual sex such a bummer?
female orgasms
I don’t expect to come from casual sex, while I’m sure every dude I have it with does.
sex education
In the Appalachian region, sex is still often linked to marriage, or at least reproduction, and the choices of teenagers without access to enough information can have long-lasting effects.
Something that didn’t happen to me: I didn’t have an orgasm. As in never.